Growing up we were encouraged to make gifts, so my family does appreciate them. We also learned how to find out what people would like. Rarely were giver and recipient disappointed.
Many years ago my DH's aunt once gave me a top that was bright coral red. I'm a redhead and was surprised. This particular aunt spent a lot of thought in her gifts. DH said give it a try. Every time I wore it I got compliments. So, you never know. She obviously knew better than I did.
I was working on a quilt recently and one of my brothers asked if it was for him. (I didn't think it was his style or color preferences). I asked, "You like this?" "No, but if you gave it to me I would use it and love it"
Once it is given how it is used or not used is entirely up to recipient, at that point it is out of our control.