My boss (and good friend) has a party every year at their home. It is his birthday and most of the people there are my good friends from church.
DH has been asked by our head pastor to put on a New Years party and movie at the church. So, I will be at my Boss's house and he will be at the church with his party. I will probably come over to the church to be with him at midnight.
No alcohol at either party except for the champagne toast at midnight at my boss's place.