I am SO sorry. I know how hurt you are. I have been in your shoes. I know what kind of time goes into even the simplest things. There have been many years that I couldn't afford to "purchase" and gifts so I made them. I thought everyone had enjoyed my homemade gifts until recently, well about 3 years ago. Two of my three sisters thought I was "cheap" because I made them gifts. I also found out that both of my sister in laws never liked them either. None of them have ever received any of my quilts though. At the time I was making the beaded Christmas ornaments using the delicas. These would take me two weeks a piece to make. Oops, I'm sorry. Here I'm trying to make you feel better and I'm going on about my family. We all have someone in our lives that either don't know or don't care how much time and love we put into our homemade gifts.