Marmie, Take them. If you think it is too soon, put them away in a safe place until you are ready. I made a very special quilt for my mother. Little did I know, a few weeks later she'd be gone. My sister gave the quilt back to me. At first I cried, now that's the quilt everyone reaches for when they are sick, sad or hurt. That's the one quilt everyone reaches for for extra comfort. I am so sorry for your loss. If you ever need to talk, please feel free to PM me. It helps.