yes it is too soon to make the decission.....I lost my Mother Sept. "09. I made her a small memory wall hanging.. when dividing her personal item my sisters insisted I take it. I have it hanging in my sewing room.....she too was a quilter and I feel confort having it near while I sew..and I cherish each of her hand made quilts she gave me. I even have her unfinished tops. This year I am gifting my 3 sister a wall hanging for b-days made from a grandmothers flower garden top that Mom had started. God be with you... Blessed are those that mourn.