I made a panel lap quilt " AMAZING GRACE" for my MIL several months before died.Well my children wanted it as a blanket in the coffin.We washed& ironed it & used it. I had decided to give it to her oldest sister who was in a nursing home. My youngest(25) ASKED if she could have it. SO she kept it to remember her "AMAZING GRACE GRAMMA"- that was what she always called herself! LOL!! put out feelers-some of the family might surprise you!