My DH is wonderful about doing what needs doing and not complaining about it. My health often does not permit me to do the simplest chores, and he just steps in and takes over. Cooking, cleaning, shopping... he will handle it all. And he doesn't complain about what doesn't get done either. I don't have anything to gripe about with him. So what if he doesn't do it just the way I would have. It gets done and that suits me just fine! I smile, give him a hug and say thank you.