We didnt have time to deal with losing our dad I got a call from my mom saying that the doctor had told dad he had cancer and they were setting up an appt. with a cancer specialist that was Oct 14.2009 On Oct. 28,2009 just after the last of eleven children made it home I said goodbye to daddy and went home for the night Got phone call the next morning Dad was gone So dont leavw anything to chance go say everything you need to say The last thing daddy said to me was I Love You and I am so grateful also so glad all the family made it home my brother and two sisters hadnt been home in seven years Take care of yourself and just keep telling her you love her and are there for her God Bless You