My first name is fine - Diana, but I figured I would lose my last name if I ever got married. Unfortunately, or fortunately because he is still my number one guy even after 20 years, I married the last name of Heiney. It proved a real problem for our son in his younger grades. Even the teachers. We even offered to change our name for him but he declined. It is however a good thing that he comes from many generations of large farming stock in past generations on both sides and now has a black belt in Tae Kwon Do.