You just have to get your priorities straight. If working outside the home is necessary, then you can't eliminate that. However, all that cooking, cleaning, laundry crap will be there when you are taking a break from sewing, so it should never be higher on the list. If the people who live with you get hungry, they know where the food is. If they need clean clothes, they know where the washer is. The detergent and softener has directions on it. If they don't like cobwebs hitting them in the face, they can duck or get the broom after them. Hey, it's their choice.
Now, I am perfectly willing to eat whatever someone else cooks without complaining as long as they are willing to cook it without complaining. Seems fair to me. Smiles and hugs,