This something I too am working on. I have been so hard on my self in everything in life. I decided I just want to enjoy my hobby not get stressed out about it in any aspect. I have a job that stresses me out enough... I say we all need to stop being so hard on ourselves and just sit back relax and enjoy the process, isn't that why we quilt anyway? I will just have to keep telling myself this when I am working on my projects. :)