I met mine through one of my friends... she was his babysitter LOL. I never thought when I was younger that I would fall for a guy 6 years older with two kids, but sure enough I did. We met and were married in less than a year and have now been married for 8 and 1/2 years. My mom tells me that it was good that I found him because I might not have ever grown up if not for him. I never knew that you could love kids that weren't your blood as much as I do, but they are as if they were my own. We now have 4 kids and never have time to breathe anymore as they keep you so busy... hopefully they slow down a little so that I can get some quilting done this year.... I don't think I finished but one thing last year.