my hubby cuddles up with his when he's watching football (or any other sports on tv) he uses it on the couch when he doesn't feel good. my son's and nephew use theirs all the time---never leave home with out it-- my sister's hubby keeps his in his truck...takes it hunting, camping...everywhere...all the men in my world LOVE their quilts and use them ALL THE TIME...much more than the girls who seem to think there is some sort of (propriety) involved.