As a granny of 5, I say "cherish" every moment you can with your granddaughter. They grow up so very fast. Yes, I raised 2 children with my hubby & no one helped us out with them. Our son has 3 daughters all born in January, soon to be ages 9 & identical twin girls that will be 6. Our daughter's twins will turn 5 next month. Yes, 2 sets of twins just 13 months apart. I will never forget the days when we had newborns, toddlers, & a preschooler here at our home. BUT I cherish those memories as the youngest twins will be going to school this coming August. Every other Saturday, I have 5 grandchildren here. WOW... keeping them occupied in the winter months is now the challenge...but they are all pretty well behaved & they know the rules at papa & nana's house!