I have 8 grandkids and I have never been their primary daycare. I love them all, but.....I have taken them to pre-school and picked them up, and on school vacation I have had them and when my son-in-law was very ill, I was with them for about 4 months. However, I don't want to be the caregiver who has to make them mind, I want to be the grandma who spoils them rotten.