In my opinion, the quilting, housework and errands can wait. There is nothing in the world that would stop me from watching my grandchildren if possible. My granddaughter lives in Florida and I am in Massachusetts, so it is painful for me to not be there.
I watched my three nephews for years. Not every day, but always a minimum of 3 days per week, and I loved every minute of it, got nothing done, but had incredible love and joy in my life daily. There is just nothing in the world that can replace it.
I took a night job so I could watch them and it kept me broke, but still no regrets.
The most important thing to me is that they were safe with me. I loved them dearly, disciplined them with love, and never had to worry that someone would do them wrong.
At one point, my bro decided the youngest needed time at day care. Each time I picked him up, he was upset, so I started to get there sooner. His parents were sure he was just being stubborn, but I truly knew this kid was not comfortable with strangers and needed to feel secure with family. I finally convinced them I would get him socialized with other children if they would just leave him with me instead, and it worked, much to my relief. He is a very happy and fun child, but security is at the forefront with him and he loved having friends come to his house and I got to enjoy watching him blossom.
When they don't need you anymore, it is awful, but at least you have plenty of time for housework, errands and quilting!
Diane