I too suffer. I'm on Lyrica now, and it seems to help. I take it with a small dose of Prozac. I started with a gradual dose and built it up to 2 at night and 1 in the day. Things are better but not perfect. Five yrs. ago I had kidney failure from taking Aleve twice a day. (Normal dose) I'm fully recovered, but I can't take NSIDS of any kind, kidneys are sensitive. Tell her to hang in there. And good luck.