I totally agree with QM, I love to see quilts with "stars" on them for guys/boys. For some reason they seem very "manly" for me. I would also find a good focus fabric for them. either in their fav color or if they are really really really into a hobby that isn't going to end in around 4 years I would go with that. Sports are all fine and good but if they like outdoorsy stuff I would go with those fabrics. I would also go with marbles or batiks that are not too girly. This is the quilt that I am working on for my son. I don't plan on him growing out of it anytime soon. but then again he isn't even 2 yet. This is for his twin size bed. (attaching in a moment) I took and purposly made it more "big boyish" than kidish because I want it to last for many years for him. well at least until his room color changes.
i have this quilt on here if you want to get a better look. just look under my posts
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