to sosewcrazy
Amen to that. I am retired after 50 years of doing what somebody else wanted me to do. Also used to have nasty headaches, tummy aches, etc.
Now the cats and I do whatever we want, when we want. We all have our own lives to live. Sometimes we just watch the birds, deer, squirrels, turkeys, etc. out the window (and we live in the city). We don't do sick any more, either.