I go by my first name--first and middle together sound like I"m from the deep south-no offense intended but I'm a born and bred NY-er! My DD goes by her middle name. In 3rd grade she decided she disliked her first name (Kristiana) and went with Joy. She is a Joy, too, so it fits. Last year, after graduating college, she wrote me a letter, told me she was sorry if she hurt my feelings, thinks Kristiana is beautiful. She is still my number one Joy!
Laurie