Thank you for this helpful and kind thread of messages. I also suffer from arthritis and there are days that my hands just don't want to quilt. My university work involves hours on the computer, and this keep my fingers in action so then I can go home in the evening I can quilt.
The information about the use of the warm wax is encouraging. I just "blew off" this tool as another gimmick to catch our money. With your recommendations, I think I may search for a unit and give it a try.
Dear readers, do heed the comment about the long term use of Tylenol. It is true, clinically researched and nothing to dismiss. All medications will have side effects but let's not harm ourselves unduly by taking a medication long term that is meant for short term use.
Keep active quilters, quilt in spurts and sputters and enjoy the feel and color of your fabrics. The results of your efforts will be more dear to you and they will keep you engaged, curious, learning and active longer than just waiting for the pain to go away.
You all will be in my prayers. I find it makes a difference.