I had to chuckle when I was first married our home was so spotless friends did not want to come over. They felt it was too clean to feel relaxed in. Fast forward 8 years and 1 5yo later and well we now have a lived in home. One of our friends said it felt so much better. So a little dust a little clutter is noraml. I keep the kitchen and bathrooms and our living space spotless but bedrooms and such are no longer worrisome.