Oh you poor girl. Sounds like he is insecure a bit. You need to compromise with him. My sisters husb is somewhat like that where he wants her to go everywhere with him etc. She started readingbooks while he watched TV in the same room.I have been married for 46 yrs and when he retired it was hard because he was bored and wanted me to go places and I had to go.But in the evenings I got him to weave place mats and he is now on his 10th one and loves it. Hope you can find something for your husb to do instead of TV then you can do your hobbies.