Eeeeew! If my hubby ever treated me like yours treats you it would hit the fan around here so *** fast. My hubby has always been supportive of my hobbies which are sewing garments and quilting, crafts, reading and writing and astronomy. He has his hobbies; I admire his woodwork (he built our log house, being a weekend auto mechanic and he loves fishing. My suggestion: leave murder mysteries laying around the house and when he asks, just smile and say "You have nothing to worry about." and pat his hand and smile sweetly but with a steely look in your eyes.