sounds like he is a bit selfish..my husband is ill and so the only thing he does is watch tv which he enjoys..he supports my hobby and shows quite an interest..tells me to buy whatever i want within means..his only vice..he cannot stand waste..i once put a bag of fabric to donate in my car and he had a hissy fit..said spend all that money to just give it away..well...but i cant complain....in defense of all husbands...some women really do spend tooo much money..and leave their husbands alone hours on end..maybe even every day..how would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot?...hang in there girl