Don't have Lupus or Sjorgrens, but have pretty bad Osteoarthritis. Have had both hips replaced, then both hips needed revisions, had extensive massive reconstruction on right femur, and now have OA in my spine. I think these diseases bring us good days, bad days, depressing times and very happy times. I find that often I need to remind myself how lucky I am and just try to turn my thoughts to something pleasant like....QUILTING :), kitties, baking, my church, etc. Hugs to you!