those are great.... can't decide which one I like the best - I have yet to do a Sunbonnet but I've always wanted to do one....
sorry about the autism - our middle child had a stroke at a very young age (under two) and has spent a life time trying to overcome that along with heart surgery (asd) and other assorted things and being ridiculed in school for being handicapped...
she managed to get through all of that (she's 40) and still lives with us and is a blessing...
hang in there...