Well there you go, so I just tell her myob! Mind your own business, if someone isn't savy with abbreviations.
the deal is they took care of me when I had my accident 5 years ago and they think they need to tell me or suggest to me what to do. and it just seems like they want to "dominate" me because of that, thanks for the advice, I really needed that,
in one ear and out the other?? and yes I do want to share what I do, so to learn to brush off the comments of others, sounds good to me! again thanks ladies
and I should have remembered this "don't let the dictates of others rule you" ok keep it coming! I see the light!!