as i said ... we have a section in which members are free to vent, rant, steam and be as negative as they need to be.
the PDAs are your place to gripe if you need it. they are the place to vent if you need it. they are the place in which to seek validation of negativity if you need it.
we're a bit flexible - but only to a point - about it in the General ChitChat section. but i stress ... only to a point.
the other sections are not a place to drag out the anger, angst and drama. we are not invisible here. thousands of people read what we write every day.
we want others to have the correct impression of who we are as a group. ;-)