None of my quilts have flaws...everything you see wrong - I did on purpose!
As a newbie - if I ask for help - then give it. If I didn't and I post here - it means (to me) that I like it and am pleased what what I have and want to show it off...since I'm so new I try not to compare myself to others on this board.
I think the other thing is how well do you "know" the person....there are several on here who post on all my pictures - I would probably take a "hint" from them easier than someone I hadn't seen posting with me before.
So I don't know....