You are not being unreasonable. Nobody can understand the order you need to pack your things in but you. I consider my sewing/quilting supplies sacred (well, almost ), and need to have them in the order I choose. If you need help, pay a neighbor kid a few dollars to pack them exactly as you want them. Kids like to see all the fabric and sewing supplies, and you would be there overseeing it all, so you would know it would be the way you want it. Stick to your guns and take care of your stuff :) :)