I would have already had it packed. A little at a time, after alll your DH is gone 4 days a week. You would be surprised how much you could get done in that time. Besides if he sees you are serious he might offer to help with the heavy items. Those packers have their own way of doing things and they are not going to pay too much attention to a one-armed woman.
No, I do not think you are being unreasonable. And, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Who is packing his fishing gear, golf clubs, or TV remote? I know some will disagree with me, but you asked me what I thought.