I haven't read all the messages in this thread, but here's a thought or two. If you can't get a friend/friends together to help you pack, call a local high school. Many high schools require community service of their upperclassmen, and perhaps there would be a student or two who would be able to satisfy their community service hours helping out. Also, candidates for confirmation in Catholic churches also often have to fulfill service requirements. Call your local parish to see if anyone needs some hours.