MistyMarie, your life and mine almost parallel except maybe 20 years in between. Husband deployed for 8 mos, had baby two weeks later with major problems and with no help. He saw his son at over 7 mos for the first time. I feel for you and yes I would have left a puddle if I had heard the cap come off. I had many times like that. One deployment our son was three and decided to use his play razor like daddy. My husband would knock his electric razor off into the toilet to clean it so it was the day of deployment and my husband had just left. Jamie went to the bathroom and then came back to me and pointed to the bathroom. I ran to the bathroom and the toilet was overflowing. I turned off the flow and got a plumber. He had to take the toilet off the floor and found a toy razor in it. You learn to be self sufficient. Good luck and if you ever need to talk, just pm me.