Sorry that she has to be negative. I understand how it can be upsetting, but you have a good attitude, some days we're stronger than others. Hope that tea helped. The way you make your quilts is your style!! There is no right or wrong way. You bind yours the way my MIL did hers and my mother made me a tied quilt that she 'enveloped'. All wonderful quilts, that offer love and warmth. Stay strong.