that sounds like a sick cat to me. My male cat once had a similar problem and while my husband and I were trying to figure out what was going on, he almost died from a UTI. After the vet visit and the cats stay at the vet for almost a week, when we brought him home it never happened again. that poor cat must be in misery. Take him to the vet. i have seven indoor cats, and any of my cats that starts acting strange, its a trip to the vet. Unfortunately, our animals cannot tell us when something is wrong, they just try to show us.