I agree with Lovequilts ... do it your own way. Your binding is a traditional method for binding, as is tying quilts. One of my most treasured family quilts made a long time ago is tied. Love and enjoy every quilt you make. The relationship between moms and daughters can sometimes be difficult. Accept that your mom is going to be critical of you, but don't let her comments keep you from enjoying your craft. Blessings.