Maybe I can help you.
Handquilting is my favorite. The quest is for even stitches , on the top and on the bottom. The number is not so important. When counting your number of stitches per inch.....an old quilter told me.....count the ones on the top and on the bottom for a total count.
Your thimble is important, one with a grid on the tip is the easiest one to use. The goal is for total control of your needle.
If I can help you more:
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Pat Jessop :D