As Cindy Roth says 3 Rules of Quilting, 1 There are no Quilt Police 2 There are no Rules in Quilting 3 Refer to No. 1. You have every right to stand up for yourself and I am proud of you. I think what probably hurts most is no matter how old we get we still want approval from our parents. Sometimes our parents are not flexible enough, she will come around. Maybe send her a text just telling her you love her, and she knows you do