I have to thank you for this mornings laugh :D and your probably right. I can also agree with the hubby thing, but it's those little things you will miss when they are gone.
I usually prewash cottons and flannels when it comes to clothing, but I haven't done alot of quilts. I've done alot of wedding dresses, clothing, purses, drapes, etc. but I thought I'd try a more advanced wildlife applique quilt using some of my fancy scraps like micro suedes, faux leather, etc. You make a great point with your postwash advice. I'd feel awful if I gave a gift that I made and it fell apart! I'll definately make a point to do that. I think it says something for the craftsmanship if the seams hold, but the fabric falls apart.