I know it's out of the ordinary, but what if she purchased a crib sheet or two that is the same fabric as what they will be using and use that to make the quilt? That way they will have the fabric they want, and you can select a pattern that would be on the contemporary side. It just might work. My only other suggestion is: don't give them a quilt at all. Purchase something she already knows has been pre-approved by them. :? It will make them happy and your friend won't have to suffer the heartache if they reject her gift of love. :wink: