Miranda!!!!! Perhaps this would be better sent privately, but i'll bet others will back me up on this.
stop questioning everything you say to us, Dear. we always understand what you mean and the way you mean it. you've never said anything offensive or mean-spirited to or about anybody. most of us ramble from time to time. most of us wander off-topic from time to time. you are ALLOWED to be as goofy and crazy from time to time - just like the rest of us are from time to time.
you are a NICE person. your thoughts and words have as much value as anybody else's. give yourself more credit and RELAX!!!! ok? :wink: