Happy is good- just look at my collection of rose colored glasses.
I figure if I am upbeat and positive, people will either:
1) ignore me and not be my friend 'cause they can't stand it
or
2) see the sunny side of things and become positive too!
My daughter's friend once asked me why i was so upbeat- even if my kids anger me. I told her I'm old enough to know they have to make their own decisions ans although they are not the decisions I would make, I just watch. It's their life.
It's so much easier to be happy!!!