Originally Posted by Barbm
Happy is good- just look at my collection of rose colored glasses.
I figure if I am upbeat and positive, people will either:
1) ignore me and not be my friend 'cause they can't stand it
or
2) see the sunny side of things and become positive too!
My daughter's friend once asked me why i was so upbeat- even if my kids anger me. I told her I'm old enough to know they have to make their own decisions ans although they are not the decisions I would make, I just watch. It's their life.
It's so much easier to be happy!!!
i was just getting ready to say "it takes more energy to carry a grudge than it does to get over it" Going thru that now with son's wife. She's carrying the grudge & I could care less. I've always said she's playing a game, she's out in left field all by herself & no one is playing with her. They see what she/people are like. Stay happy, it's not worth it