Every morning when I get up I make a choice of what kind of day I am going to have. I can not control other people but I can control my reaction to them. Not that I don't have bad days, we all do but I try not to inflict them on other people. I have great family and friends that I can lean on when I need to. I have a neighbor that when you ask how she is you get a long list of gripes. I sometime wonder if she really knows how she sounds or if it is just a habit.