It really is in my trust documents. I have named someone to be in charge of this and guide my grown kids. It is OK to sell whatever, but my kids would need guidance so they don't just give things away haphazardly.
I am so OCD/anal retentive [not really] that I even have a file on my computer titled "In the Event of..." that lists who to contact, where other items are, things I have done in my life [that they are either unaware of are just plain forgot.], and what I want done when I am dead. My kids thought that was a hoot. They don't live near me so they don't really know what I think they should know. This is a difficult subject to talk about with them as they don't want to think of my death.
Let's face it. I will die sometime and go to that great quilting retreat.
ali