I did the same as Quiltyjax - came in just now and read every post on this. The quilt is beautiful and you are an inspiration!!! Thoughts and prayers to you and your DH and your SIL and all the family. If I were in Gaylene's position, I would love an iPod or music player to be able to listen to music and books - certain music can be soooo cathartic. And cards, as someone else mentioned - I would be more than willing to make a quilted fabric postcard to send to her.