October will be 46 for us. Have discovered if you are married long enough you will LIVE all you marriage vows. DH and I have worked side by side except for 3 years I worked off trhe farm We always said two things that could make a farm couple divorce was loading market hogs and hanging wall paper! DH tells this story with humor, a neighbor woman asked him one time "I heard you and your wife were talking divorce (DH saw instant red and laid a big whopper on this neighbor). He said, yah, we went to a lawyer and he told us one of you has to take the children, WE looked at each other and said NO WAY! and left the lawyers office together! DH said the neighbor got the dumbest look on her face at which he promptly turned and walked away! The moral of the story when you work side by side you learn to get it off your chest only you'd better watch out the neighbors might be listening. Anyone married for a long time knows it is all about committment love notwithstanding.