I just love reading these posts. I am very sorry for the ones that have lost their spouses.
I married DH#1 when I was a Jr in High School. Yep baby on the way. Parents has royal fit and was crushed & before I could blink they had a wedding planned. That was in 68. In 71 had my DS and found out that DH had been cheating on me the entire marriage. Click....divorce.
Met older DH#2. Well that did not work out. He had already done all that I wanted to do and had older kids. We had 1 child together. Click...divorce.
Met DH#3 who had never married before & always wanted a large family. 5 was our goal. He was out of college & ina great job. We married, he adopted my 3 kids (their sorry Dad's didn't want them or any responsability) and we have been through good and lots of rough spots. We had a child together and I could not have anymore. He was perfectly okay with that as my health was far more important. But kids are all grown and we have "us" time now and love it. He quilts with me if I want him to and is so supportive of whatever I want. Spoils me actually. LOL 34 yrs now together and we are each other's half. Unbelievable!