For categories in a show, I can see them being separated. But quilting in general? To say it is cheating is absurd as saying that using a panel is cheating or that a mini isn't a "real" quilt or that using a sewing machine to piece instead of hand piecing is cheating, or using a rotary cutter instead of scissors.
If you look up the definition of "quilt" you'll find that it is two layers of fabric with batting in between, sewn together. How you sew it doesn't make it less of a quilt. Taking advantage of the technology offered in our current lives doesn't mean one is not a "real" quilter.
I get my panties all in a wad when someone says something like this. HOW you do it does not make a quilt a quilt. As long as it's done and you enjoy the process, it is not cheating.